safe sex for swingers
Safe Sex for swingers
It doesn't matter whether you're hetero, homo or bisexual, you may practice safe sex, but what it all boils down to is the fact that, not only are you having sex with you're partner but also any other lovers in his or her sexual history. If you should be unfortunate enough to catch a sexually transmitted disease then it is you're duty to do something about it, not only for your own health but for the health of those that may end up sharing your bed.
The only way to avoid the risk of catching an STD or STI is total abstinence, but, to be quite honest, this is quite unrealistic unless you're a monk, a eunuch or a total moose. The best way of reducing your chances of catching a willy rotting disease is to practice safe or safer sex.
What is safer sex anyway? We use the word safer because all sex can have consequences -- from emotional consequences to diseases and pregnancy. If you decide to be sexually active, you owe it to yourself to learn about what behaviors are risky, and how much risk you want to take.
Now, I know from experience that visiting the doctor with a suspected STD can be embarrassing, but no matter how long you ignore it and keep telling yourself that, it's got a cold. or that the swellings impressive! it just isn't going to go away. And some of the horror stories that you hear, about how they treat certain STDs makes a long and agonising death seem so much more appealing.
Sex is too serious a matter to be left entirely to your genitals. The consequences can be quite serious, unless you think about your goals and priorities; what your're willing to do, and not willing to do.
But lots of people aren't doing what they know they should because they are uncomfortable talking about their decisions. They're too embarrassed to bring up the subject; they fear rejection; or they just aren't sure how to say what they want to say. It's a lot easier to have sex than to talk about it, but talking and planning ahead can make sex much better.
Remember, you should only have sex when you want to; only with those you want to be sexual with, and only in ways that are enjoyable and as safe as possible.
But not all drippy willies and itchy lips are STDs, some have quite innocent origins. So before you run to the doctors screaming that you have ringworm in your penis and he tells you that it's lipstick!
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